2022 Soft Cock Week

Below is a list of events and resources from the week.


Soft Cock Soft Opening

Facilitated by:

Zach Budd (@zinvictuz on IG)

Zach is a self-proclaimed nerd, a sex geek, and a consent junkie. He has been actively polyamorous for over a decade and kinky for even longer. Zach is a consent educator, social worker, and mental health professional. He firmly believes that everyone has the right to their choice of how to “live, love and relate”.

Zach lives, works, laughs, and loves in Houston, Texas where he enjoys listening to and playing music, advocating for his own and others’ self care, all things Star Trek, reading, gaming, hockey, cooking, and is owned and loved by a spoiled rotten boxer named Jadzia.

Zach has served on polyamory and kink discussion panels, conducted workshops, delivered keynote speeches, and recorded podcast episodes on the subjects of polyamory, consent, and kink. He is also an advocate for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and a proud member of the Board of Directors for Loving More, the nation’s oldest polyamory organization. Learn more at https://tanglewoodbehavioral.com/staff/zach-budd-intern/. On X: @black_sexgeek

JoJo Bear (@somaticguide4men on IG)

Jojo Bear is a Somatic Sex & intimacy Guide in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is a certified Sexological Bodyworker, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Wheel of Consent™ facilitator and teaches for the Body Electric School. Check out his website at: www.somaticguide4men.com

Michelle Renee (@meetmichellerenee on IG)

Michelle Renee (she/her), based in San Diego, works in the entire spectrum of human connection from platonic to erotic as a professional cuddler, surrogate partner, and hands-on intimacy coach. She often explains her one-on-one offerings as “the physical therapy for your emotional health”.

Phoenix Mandel (@phoenix.mandel on IG)

Phoenix Mandel, CSE (they/them) is an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator providing education, coaching, and consulting services in California, traveling/on location, and virtually. They specialize in LGBTQIA+, fertility and family concerns, and areas of diverse sexual expression and sexual rights. Phoenix works with individual and family systems throughout all stages of life. For more information, please visit https://phoenixmandel.com/


Soft Cock-Tail Mixer

As a wrap-up to the first annual Soft Cock Appreciation Week, some of the content contributors from the week of celebration and education joined Soft Cock Week creator Michelle Renee to talk flaccid phallus.

In this 2 hour recorded live event, you'll meet:

Michelle Renee, Soft Cock Week Creator

Michelle Renee (she/her), based in San Diego, works in the entire spectrum of human connection from platonic to erotic. The creator of #SoftCockWeek, she would be delighted if she never had a penis-owner contact her to '“fix” their erections again. Soft cocks are fun and she wants to normalize them.

Phoenix Mandel, Certified Sexuality Educator

Phoenix Mandel, CSE (they/them) is an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator providing education, coaching, and consulting services in California, traveling/on location, and virtually. They specialize in LGBTQIA+, fertility and family concerns, and areas of diverse sexual expression and sexual rights. Phoenix works with individual and family systems throughout all stages of life.

Stephan Takaya, Somatic Body Worker

Based in the Seattle/Puget Sound area, I am an autistic individual learning to connect the social dots of society and sharing my experiences with others. Learning how bodies interact with itself and others is becoming my life’s work. Understanding how the body’s sense receptors connect to our chemical producing centers and how that makes us feel. I believe this is an integral part of mindfulness and understanding whom we are as complex beings. As a veteran, polyamorous, queer, neuro-divergent, kinky, BIPOC I bring a vast experience to share and hopefully assist you in finding what you’re seeking!

Zach Budd, LMSW

Zach is a self-proclaimed nerd, a sex geek, and a consent junkie. He has been actively polyamorous for over a decade and kinky for even longer. Zach is a consent educator, social worker, and psychotherapist from Houston, TX. He firmly believes that everyone has the right to their choice of how to “live, love and relate”. Zach has served on polyamory and kink discussion panels, conducted workshops, delivered keynote speeches, and recorded podcast episodes on the subjects of polyamory, consent and kink. He is also an advocate for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and a proud member of the Board of Directors for Loving More, the nation’s oldest polyamory organization.

Ruby Ryder

Ruby is a Blogger, Pegging Expert, Sex Podcaster, Writer of Erotica, Sex Worker, and Sex Educator.


SEX+STL: Soft Cock Week

As part of Soft Cock Appreciation Week 2022, Kendra Holliday, founder of Sex Positive Saint Louis, invited Michelle Renee, creator of Soft Cock Week to talk about flaccid phallus.


Ruby Ryder Shares a Her Love of Soft Cock in this Special Audio Recording


The Rocket Review: Soft Cock Week Soft Opening


Emily Otto Show: Michelle Renee and Soft Cock Week


Rediscovery of a Cock

by Lou Sanfillipo